ONE YEAR WITHOUT INSTAGRAM....(yes, I'm still ok)

Happy insomnia everyone! This week has been so all over the place, coming back from a fab friend’s San Diego bachelorette party—we literally ended up seeing Fetty Wap, front row, 100% unplanned—to traveling back to KC, to having to travel back to my dad’s farm to help him out. From Fetty Wap to farm….that’s a broad range! Perhaps it’s no wonder I’ve been having terrible insomnia tonight as my mind unspirals. However, the second I finally got my eyes to close and start to drift, the (boring) podcast I was listening to for sleepy white noise mentioned Instagram and I shot up in bed, grabbed my computer and drew up this post because…

it’s been a YEAR since I deleted my Instagram!

To clarify, I’m not sure if today is exactly one year. I didn’t conduct a funeral with a little miniature headstone noted with the date of deletion and how many likes and followers I came to rest in peace with. No, if you want to hear more about that specific awakening, check out my post-insta-mortem article I wrote last year.

Some of you who have been following me for a long time and saw the former IG feed have probably wondered, perhaps aloud, “Wow, Elise really isn’t modeling anymore, she’s not blogging as much, she must have suffered a decrease in activity since she deleted IG.” The answer to that is not easy. Yes, I have been doing less modeling over the past year, but that’s by design. The shoots and shows that I do are either booked through my agency, planned as a fun hang out creative session with friends, or a combination of both—friends/designers/business owners who want to work with me because we vibe in person and I created a working impression. So yes, I have been modeling less since deleting IG.

Here’s what I have been doing more of. Prioritizing my true friends and family. Singing karaoke for the first time at a random bar in Denver. Climbing mountains. Road tripping through the night delirious with the lack of sleep, watching the neon gas station lights give way to technicolor sunrise desert. Giving old grudges the chance to become new friends. Cartwheeling in the front yard in the soft Napa night while waiting for an uber. Being wild for my soul instead of my “stories.” Ultimately, seeing the empty spaces in my mind’s energy and filling them with a new, second career helping others.

One year free…these are the questions I get asked the most: Do you miss it? and, Will you ever reactivate your account?

To answser the first question, very bluntly—no. It’s been great not having that added distraction. I used to get FOMO from friends posting to their IG stories, but now, the friends who know me well and have stories with me in them are great about saving and sharing with me the best moments.

The second question, reactivation. Simply, nope, not possible. I didn’t deactivate, I did a hard delete. This makes people very uncomfortable; in fact, today I literally heard an interview of a chick on the radio who was sobbing (sobbing!) because her IG got hard deleted. But for me, I wanted to challenge myself. It was difficult to do, but quickly became easy, I don’t regret it, and, yes, I’m ok. ;)

Backstory: Check out my article from last year!

Winter Outfit Warm Spell | How to Find and Challenge "Bland" Areas of Your Wardrobe

I struggle with pants. A loaded statement, open to various interpretations, decidedly, but true nonetheless. When it comes to outfits, I’ve always considered the bottom half of a look to be an afterthought. Perhaps this stems from my never-ending frustration with finding jeans that fit just right (doesn’t everyone?), but the end result is that I have my go-to outfit finishers from the waist down—black jeans, blue jeans, yoga pants—and I never really vary from those tried and trues.

Clearly, I stepped out my comfort zone for this look. I got these pants at Zara in New York City while visiting for fashion week last winter. They traveled back to KC and…sat in my closet, waiting. Finally, this fall and winter I wore them a couple times and was pleasantly surprised how the looks came together. The moral of the story is to follow your instincts in regard to fashion. If a piece speaks to you, but it’s out of your usual modus operandi, maybe take the plunge and add it to your collection—especially if it’s a statement piece in an area of your wardrobe that is usually neutral territory (black leggings/skinny jeans territory for me).

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Friday Outfit Fix | Staying In With MADI Apparel | DISCOUNT CODE

Kansas City is home to a lot of talented people. Moreover, Kansas City is home to lot of talented young people. One of the most talented young entrepreneurs I have met is the founder of MADI Apparel, Hayley Besheer. From the moment I met her, I was beyond impressed with her drive and the success she's achieved with her line of intimate apparel. From Forbes to Nylon Magazine, Hayley has made a big media impact with MADI--but she is making a humanitarian impact as well. 

MADI stands for Make A Difference Intimates. When you shop MADI Apparel, you are not shopping just any lingerie boutique. With each piece sold, a pair of underwear--the most under-donated clothing item--is donated to a woman in need (think domestic violence shelters, homeless shelters, etc). Donations have been made both domestically and internationally. 

MADI Apparel garments themselves are also making a difference to our environment and our community. Each piece is fabulously, lounge-all-weekend soft, due to being made from eco-friendly bamboo cloth. This cloth is cut and sewn right at home in Kansas City, rather than being outsourced abroad to questionable production conditions. 

If MADI Apparel's story of giving back doesn't have you won over, the quality and style of the pieces certainly will! With a sense of elegant restraint, MADI offers pieces that steer away from the overly trendy and towards the timeless. Always crafted in the softest, most flattering fabrics, these intimates will have you (and your significant other!) wanting to stay in all weekend! Scroll down for my favorite MADI pieces + an exclusive DISCOUNT CODE! 

STYLIST NOTES // MY MADI PICKS

THE DIANA WIDE LACE THONG

THE KAREN BAMBOO RESTFUL ROBE

THE SIMONE BAMBOO SLEEP SHORTS 

THE ANNA SHIFT DRESS 

THE MOLLY LUXE LACE BRALETTE

USE CODE "ELISE4MADI" TO GET 20% OFF! 

#TravelTuesday | Charleston + Kiawah Island, South Carolina

2018 has been a unique year of travel for Johnny and I as several of the trips we've been on/have planned are for wedding celebrations of our friends. Personally, I love attending destination weddings because it's an excuse for a vacation and the guest list tends to be smaller so the event itself is more intimate for the guests and the couple. Last month, we had the pleasure of traveling to South Carolina for some destination nuptials. I had never been, but always wanted to visit SC, so this wedding picked the perfect destination! 

**FYI, The amount of pictures I took on this trip is severely lacking due to my phone SIM card not working. No reception : less phone usage : photography neglect. 

DAY 1 + 2 // CHARLESTON 

Upon landing in Charleston, our initial impression was how much smaller of a city it was than we had assumed. Downtown was quaint antiquity rather than imposing skyscrapers. I welcomed the change, and enjoyed how much history all the buildings seemed to contain. Perhaps none more so than The Old Slave Market, pictured down the amazing cobblestone street in the final image. 

All of Charleston was full of little details: spiral staircases, nooks and crannies serving as courtyards, and fanciful architectural ironwork. I could have spent a long time just walking around taking in all these details. We did in fact take a walking "ghost tour" of Charleston at night, which was interesting to hear and see some of the history and tall tales of the city. 

// CHARLESTON QUICK TIPS // 

EAT // GRILL 225 (ORDER THE CRAB COCKTAIL...OMG!!) 

DRINK // CARAMELLA (BOOZY ICE CREAM/SORBET FLOATS) 

STAY // WE LOVED OUR COZY TREE HOUSE AIR BNB! (PICTURED ^)

TOUR // WALKING GHOST TOUR (NIGHT), HORSE + BUGGY TOUR (DAY)

DAY 3-5 // KIAWAH ISLAND 

Kiawah Island is approximately an hour's drive from Charleston over bridges twisting through marshlands and beautiful forests. The thing that's most noticeable about Kiawah is the seclusion. Many houses, villas, golf courses and The Sanctuary Hotel (the wedding venue) are on the island, but they are not so noticeable nestled within the dense growth of trees and foliage. With no Uber or ride-sharing service, and limited restaurants/bars, the island is decidedly non-touristy--a concept I can readily get behind! With no working phone, and no Uber services, the theme of the trip for me was a bit of a throwback in the sense that we actually had to make plans in advance! 

The wedding was held at The Sanctuary hotel (last two pictures, above). The property was everything you would imagine for Southern glamour, and the wedding was picture perfect on the green, overlooking the ocean. 

Aside from the wedding, and a close runner-up to seeing a wild alligator, my favorite part of the trip was the beach at night. It is mating season for the sea-turtles of Kiawah and I guess they like to preserve their modesty by having it pitch-black at night for their trysts. SO, since Kiawah is far enough from the mainland, and maintains no artificial light at night, you get to see a truly spectacular sight: a perfect black sky full of stars above and below you as the night sky is reflected back onto the tide and gently rolling waves. I could not stop staring. It's worth the trip to Kiawah just for that experience! 

// KIAWAH QUICK TIPS //

EAT//CHILL // MADE-TO-ORDER CUSTOM PICNIC FROM TOWN CENTER MARKET

EAT//FANCY // HEGE'S RESTAURANT (FRESHFIELD VILLAGE) 

DRINK//CHILL // BYOB ROSÈ ON THE BEACH

DRINK//FANCY // HOTEL BAR @ THE SANCTUARY 

TOUR//DAY // BIKE RENT + RIDE AROUND THE ISLAND

TOUR//NIGHT // NIGHT STARGAZING BEACH WALK 

Thanks to Dan + Laura, and their families, for inviting us to the wedding! 

// MY OUTFIT DETAILS FROM THE WEDDING DAY // 

DRESS // ISABELLA GOWN BY ALEXIS 

SHOES // LOEFFLER RANDALL 

BAG // SAINT LAURENT (SIMILAR)

BRACELETS // KENDRA SCOTT 

I Deleted My Instagram Account (Yes, I'm OK)

A few weeks ago, I deleted my Instagram account...and it has been great. 

However, I understand that this is a bold and somewhat confusing move in today's millennial culture of being plugged in and posting updates all. the. time. I've had several questions regarding the status of my Instagram account; the most prevalent of these questions has been, "Are you ok??" 

The answer is a resounding f*&k yes. Although these questions, asked under the presumption that what I've done is concerning and indicative of something amiss in my life, did inspire me to write about my decision to quit Instagram and battle the "consequences" of this loss of social capital. 

My decision to delete my IG account was not a rash choice. It was a long time coming. As the years went by and I kept throwing up picture after picture, with trivial captions, the more I felt deadened and not engaged with what I was doing. Sure, my likes and followers increased, but those numbers have not ever mattered much to me (seriously, don't really care).

The disengagement was already growing within me, and then I started looking at the big picture regarding IG. Everyone posts these little snippets of their lives, filtered and angled to perfection, with nominal captions (more likely than not a quote or an artfully strung sequence of emojis)--and people take the images to heart. "That's really the love those two have, wow!" or "She has so much money, her life is so cool." However, images are the classic unreliable narrator. 

Take this unreliability of images to show reality and ad to it, well, ads. Instagram is kind of like that episode of South Park where everything ends up being a rabbit-hole of ads. So now you have all these images of "perfect people, perfect lives" that the young or more impressionable among us take to heart as reality, not realizing it all is a sort of interactive advertising bit or television commercial. 

Can you say fake? I get it, advertising is a business of creating emotion and fantasies. But the ethics of advertising are being overlooked as the nature of Instagram shifted from blogger/community focused to advertising focused so subtly that most cannot tell the difference. The difference is there, and there is a rise in depression and suicide in younger people to show for it. 

Let's get back to my own personal level before I spin out of esoteric control. Despite all this ad inundation, I didn't quit IG on a purely social warrior stance. As it does inevitably to everyone who uses it, IG was taking up too much of my time. I worried and stressed about getting a certain number of posts out. I spent countless hours making sure I interacted with several different accounts to gain exposure. My friends and I talked about posting, analytics, etc when we could have been talking about anything else. 

The last straw was when I started catching myself reaching for my phone rather than my book. I've been reading since I was super young (and trying to read before I could!), so for me to be preferring social media over my constant written companion was simply the last straw for me. Some flags are so big and bright red they can't be ignored. 

So now I am giving myself back over to the real (well, unless I'm working on writing my novels!), and it feels phenomenal.  

If I'm being completely honest, there are very few times I wish I still had Instagram. I can think of two very specific times when someone around me was posting video to their IG story; a part of me was sad I couldn't check out the post! However, those regrets are hugely outweighed. So far this experiment has prompted more personal interactions with people, more reading on the actual websites of bloggers I used to follow, and by far less negativity.  

I don't expect everyone to follow suit--like I said, I'm not a social warrior. If you gain anything from reading this essay, hopefully it will be a lesson that transcends the social media world, as that's kind of the point. Hopefully you will be inspired to put down the phone, read a book, enjoy the outdoors, savor the unique beauty of your life in its fullness--not just in a filtered square Instagram frame. 

The New Essentials | Current Favorites | Beauty + Travel

Lately, I've given in to the temptations of Sephora a bit more than I probably should. Between full-size products I've purchased, samples included in orders and even products I've randomly grabbed at the drugstore, I've found some new gems that have been on high rotation in my beauty routine. Since my life is always chaos more or less living out of my FJ Cruiser caravan with how much I am on the road for work or traveling on vacation, many of these products are geared towards packability, making this post a perfect fit to consider as we enter summer vacation season. Pro tip: click the pictures to shop! Enjoy! 

Watermelon Glow Sleeping Mask by Glow Recipe

Glow Recipe's Watermelon Sleeping Mask first came to me as a Sephora sample. I thought it would be a gimmick. My stupidly hydrated (and yes glowing) skin the next day told me I was wrong about that. Long story short, you need Watermelon Glow in your life. If you are living that carry-on-only life like me, you'll be happy to know there is a travel size to bust that post-flight dry dullness. 

Laura Mercier Foundation Primer in Radiance 

This post could alternatively be titled the glow edit. For me, I gravitate towards lighter weight, products in the spring and summer to achieve that natural dewy look. This Laura Mercier Radiance primer does just that. It has a slight tint and provides a natural glow plus offers outstanding lasting power for foundation. I wear this primer both layered under foundation as well as on its own as it provides a lovely boost to my natural skin. Multi-functional, quick makeup products are a must when I travel--Laura Mercier Radiance goes in the bag every time! 

Yves Saint Laurent Touche Eclat 

To be honest, I am not completely sold on YSL Touche Eclat as the "holy grail" cult classic that some swear by. However, I do find myself reaching for it a lot for two reasons. First, convenience and travel. The packaging is sleek, easy to use, and not messy (since the product is all contained), making it perfect for purses or TSA approved zip-loc bags. Second, it is subtle and lightweight. As I mentioned before, I do not like wearing heavy makeup during the warmer months--particularly concealer. Touche Eclat provides a light, glowing (I know, I know) coverage. Maybe it will reach cult classic status for me after all. 

Pravana The Perfect Brunette 

As the more observant amongst you may have noticed, I am no longer a blonde! I've gone back to my roots (sorry for the oldest pun in the well-worn book), and am now trapped in that sometimes awkward phase of the blonde to brunette process where the newly darkened locks can be a bit unpredictable. For me, this manifested in a horrifying red, brassy tone starting to come through about a week after the initial dye job. Luckily I found Pravana Perfect Brunette products. Just like blondes can use purple toned products to keep their shade icy, brunettes can avoid that uncomfortable orangey red from sneaking in by applying the teal-toned Pravana suite of products. I have the shampoo, conditioner and hair mask. I only use the mask once a week because this stuff REALLY works! I already have broken my own carry-on lifestyle rule to bring these products with me on vacay, they are that good. 

Garnier SkinActive Moisture Bomb Sheet Mask

I grabbed this Garnier Moisture Bomb mask while cruising through Wal-Mart picking up last minute supplies for my trip to LA. "Moisture bomb, hmm...I could use a bomb of hydration on my face after a morning of travel," I thought to myself. Impulsively, I threw the mask in the cart, and subsequently into my suitcase. Cue me the next day, on my balcony overlooking Hollywood Hills enjoying an instant skin refresh. Garnier Moisture Bomb masks are a traveler's best friend. The mask is refreshingly cool on the face, and the clean up is easy--simply remove the sheet and massage any remaining product into your skin. Another pro-tip: apply mask in your Uber while en route from airport, and freak out your driver, bf, or anyone around you. 

FYI, if you are interested in my ESSENTIAL PRODUCTS OF ALL TIME click here for that (obviously) still relevant list! 

Friday Outfit Fix | Denim Jumpsuit Obsession

I went to NYC last weekend and managed to fit all my stuff into carry-on luggage. As a notorious over-packer, this is a true triumph. I feel like I owe a lot of this success to the work of art that is the denim jumpsuit. My only regret is that I couldn't fit more than one denim jumpsuit practically into the luggage, (most shocking, according to my friend Amber, was the fact that I have more than one denim jumpsuit). In the past, I would have been just as shocked as Amber at owning even one denim one-piece. However, there are several surprising reasons you need one of these babies in your closet. 

First off, a denim one-piece is surprisingly comfortable. The black one posted above is crafted of soft and stretchy denim. This provides a wear-all-day feel that is the opposite of what comes to mind initially with denim--scratchy and stiff. 

Second, this piece, despite being an all-in-one is capable of many different looks. Booties + poncho for game-day; platform heels + leather jacket for a night out; over the knee boots and oversized fur coat for a cold day out shopping. Not to mention by itself with sneakers! 

Third, the denim one piece is sexy. It exudes vintage 70s vibes with a modern, black denim twist. The zipper neckline on this number by DL1961 makes it easy to turn up the heat with a customizable deep v-neck of your choice. The stretch denim and unexpected silhouette make this piece a guaranteed conversation starter. 

Will you take the plunge and try a denim jumpsuit in 2018? Shop this jumpsuit below + some of my other denim-on-demin favorites! 

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Friday Outfit Fix | KC Brand Crush Shop LocalE

With it being February, it's only fitting that I post a red outfit. I used to get really into the whole Valentine's Day thing: buying a ridiculous outfit that I would only wear once, panicking that it was too cold to wear a mini dress, and ultimately setting miserably high expectations for what, in reality, usually turns out to be a typical drab-dregs of Kansas winter day. However, there is a good chance I will be wearing this blanket cape by Shop LocalE on Valentine's Day because I've been wearing it non-stop ever since I got it! I'm serious. I have it on right now!

I've been trying to inject more color into my wardrobe, and this cape fits the ticket in bold buffalo check red. It also abides by one of my favorite wardrobe life hacks: looking classy and collected while actually being comfortable and lazy. 

Of course, I am biased towards Shop LocalE--for good reason! Emily and Elizabeth (@fashioncolumntwins) have in Shop LocalE the perfect business concept for a local clothing business--quality fabrics, unique designs and a great price point! I first met Emily and Elizabeth shooting their super cute and unique sequin and beaded hometown + sports team fan wear; and now I'm loving their branching out into different types of pieces like this cape. 

SHOP MY LOOK!

PONCHO // Shop LocalE

JUMPSUIT // DL1961 via Revolve

SUNGLASSES // Ray Ban

NECKLACES // Ulah, Enve Designs (ALSO LOCAL KC MAKERS, BONUS!)

BOOTIES // Charles David (SOLD OUT // SIMILAR) 

SHOP MY BEAUTY BAG!

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PRIMER // MAC Strobe Cream, Gold 

FOUNDATION // None for this look! 

CONTOUR/HIGHLIGHT PALETTE // Kevyn Aucoin

BROW GEL // E.L.F.

EYELINER // Maybelline Lasting Drama Studio Eyeliner Gel

MASCARA // Too Faced Better Than Sex

PHOTOGRAPHY // SARA CLANCE PHOTOGRAPHY

Friday Outfit Fix | Favorite Neckline Cut

Yes, this is a post (almost) entirely about a type of neckline cut. Terrifying cold temperatures across the US have the rest of this ensemble totally impractical at the moment. However, this cut-out neckline is something you can wear no matter the season. Read on to find out why I love this style. 

Keeps the boobs in...

No matter what size your chest is, super deep v-necks are a problem. With my smaller chest, I've always struggled with deep v-neck cuts spreading too far open due to lack of boob to impede this progress (ha). With a cut out deep v, the bit of cloth at the top of the cut out keeps the two sides of the v in their proper spot! 

Looks great with layered necklaces...

While I still love the choker trend, I have been gravitating more towards adding layers of necklaces with varying lengths. The cut out v adds dimension to this layering since you have a band of fabric at the neckline and then longer necklaces peeking through the cut-out. I like to have at least three different lengths when I layer necklaces to show off each piece. 

The DIY factor is huge...

The whole concept of this type of neckline is to look deconstructed, so there's no reason why you can't refresh pieces from your own closet with a cut out v! Bring old t-shirts back to life by cutting a deep v. You could even distress the shirt further with bleach and small cuts with a box cutter. Bonus points if the t-shirt has print on the front. Presto vintage vibes! Don't limit yourself to shirts. If you have a dress or romper with a high neck that you find yourself never pulling, grab the scissors and get to chopping. Throw it in reverse by cutting a deep v in the BACK of your shirt, romper or dress! If the edges of the v are not perfectly even, don't panic and cut more in hopes of straightening them--you might cut too far. I've found that washing cut raw edges will cause them to roll or fray in a most satisfying way that covers any cutting oopsies. 

Check out some of my favorite styles featuring this neckline... 

FULL OUTFIT DETAILS:

ROMPER // SABO SKIRT (SOLD OUT) // SIMILAR LINKED ABOVE

SHOES // CHLOE 

JACKET // AMERICAN EAGLE (SOLD OUT) // SIMILAR

NECKLACE // ULAH KC // SIMILAR

PHOTOGRAPHY // SARA CLANCE PHOTOGRAPHY // FIND SARA ON FACEBOOK 

Friday Outfit Fix | Styling a Last-Minute NYE Look

Show of proverbial Internet hands, who else isn't that into New Year's Eve? The holiday always sneaks up on me so quickly after Christmas, and rarely do the celebrations lead up to their expectations. Ok, I realize this sounds highly cynical--and it is. I have always lived my live with a healthy dollop of cautious pessimism; this leaves more room to be pleasantly surprised! 

Coming around to my main point, one of the things that really makes me want to say f**k it and stay home on the couch is the dilemma of wanting to wear sexy, sparkly bits of clothing while the thermometer also shows a rather sparse figure. Thus, my outfits for NYE are generally a last minute affair. Sparkles and dressing up are fine, but if you find yourself wanting to go the understated route, or if you find yourself having gone the procrastination route (so me)--this guide to NYE dressing is for you. 

Don't get frostbite...

I've been watching the news today, and the record-low temperatures have been all over the sound bytes. So, before you go out for the night, for f**k's sake consider your game plan for the evening! If you plan to barhop--literally walking between bars--please do yourself (and your dignity) a favor and don't wear tall heels and a minuscule dress. You'll fall, you'll freeze and you won't be getting the kind of attention you were going for in the first place.

To style this cute and warm look last minute, look no further than your black jeans, boots or booties and your cutest (but still warm) coat. I like a leather jacket or faux fur coat. Preferably both of the latter, layered if you have them. A monochrome black look is great for NYE. Incorporate a pop of color in your bag, shoes or coat. Don't be afraid to throw on a cute beanie if you're headed to the bars. There's no better way to stand out than looking casually cool while everyone else is trying too hard. Below are items I actually have in my closet that I would pull for this look (only difference is my hat is red and jeans are black!). 

Stay Warm/Look Cool Inspiration 

LBD and done...

If the extent of your tundra-like traipsing is limited to the door from the Uber, you have a bit more flexibility with your outfit. This can pose a problem if you are grabbing something last minute (the allure of sequins, but the lack thereof on hand). However, if you learn anything from this blog, learn to never underestimate the power of a little black dress. You will look timeless and never like you're trying too hard. Whatever LBD you pull, glam it up with accessories and heels. Add sheer metallic or fishnet socks for a fun look (if you have them on hand). An LBD gives you a fun chance to play up the accessories. The look at the top of this post would be perfect. It's simple and glamorous, and the unexpected trendy headband style completes the look. 

Timeless on a Time Crunch Inspiration

This is a short guide, but when you're short on time too many options just get confusing! I hope this helped in preventing a panic for some of you this weekend. No matter what you end up wearing, confidence is the finishing touch to rock it! Cheers to 2018! 

5 Tips for Kansas City Fashion Week Castings | Modeling Notebook

Kansas City Fashion Week castings are here again! I remember the first time I tried out for KCFW; I was so nervous! Fun fact, I didn't make the roster that first audition. Looking back, it's clear I had absolutely no idea what I was doing! Fast forward to the next audition (yes, I came back for redemption--don't let failure underscore itself by never trying again!). I was more prepared and I came back to not only make the roster, but to book three shows my first season! If I would have been better informed, perhaps I would have made the first season I tried out. Below, I have gathered five essential tips for preparing to attend Kansas City Fashion Week auditions! 

1. PRACTICE 

If you haven't already been practicing your model walk, start NOW. Ideally, you will take several weeks in advance to walk in front of a mirror and refine your technique. This is especially important if it is your first time walking runway. However, better late than never--take the nights leading up to casting as a crash course for your walk. Watch videos of high fashion models on YouTube, visualize your body suspended on a "golden string" "(posture!!), shift walking motion to hips rather than shoulders, and try to maintain a SLOWER pace than your usual gait (this is a big one). If you can, have someone watch you and give pointers. 

2. FRESH FACE

This was my absolute downfall during my first audition. I had done some modeling for this fashion blog, but I had never been to a casting. Thus, I strolled into castings with a full face of lovely makeup. Don't do this. See the headshots above. These ladies are doing it right (and so am I this time); by having fresh faces and natural hair, they are showing the designer what they truly have to offer. Plan to show up at castings barefaced or with a MINIMAL amount of makeup. I'm talking just to cover blemishes. You're beautiful, and designers want to see that in its raw form! 

3. WEAR COMFORTABLE SHOES

This probably made you think twice (heels are never REALLY comfortable). Let me explain myself. I see lots of girls walk into casting, strutting on their tall audition shoes. Then they proceed to check in, get measured, stand in line, etc. Sometimes it can be a bit of a wait to actually audition. The last thing you want to do is stand in line extensively and be wobbling on your heels due to tired feet and legs by the time you actually walk! You will seem more professional and well-prepared if you come to the audition in sneakers with your heels in tow. Keep your feet fresh until right before your audition! 

4. PICK THE RIGHT HEELS

Choosing which heels you are going to wear for auditions is a tough call. This is not the time to try and impress the judges by pulling out those crazy high heels that you never wear because they are hard to walk in. No! You will look like you don't know how to walk in heels. Pick heels that you feel most comfortable in. I like to choose a chunkier heel with a platform in the toe for maximum ease to walk. Heels are not limited to the classic pump--strappy heels and heeled booties are other great options. While designers generally aren't choosing you based on the style of shoe you are wearing, there are a couple "cheats" that could get you passed over. I'm talking about wedges and kitten heels. Yes these types of heels are easy to walk in, but they are not representative of the type of shoe most designers go for (true high heels!). Avoid these cheats when choosing your shoe! 

5. KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT

Castings are nerve-wracking, even for those models who have walked several times. If you are a first-timer this is even worse! You will be nervous. You will be walking in front of the judges and any other models who are waiting in line to try out. You will not get feedback on the spot or extra tries (there are many others in line behind you!). Instead of letting this make you nervous, think of it this way--this is a QUICK process! It will be over before you know it. Once you make the roster, you'll have to get used to walking in front of even more people anyway! :)

Kansas City Fashion Week Auditions are this Saturday (Dec. 2) and Sunday (Dec. 3) from 10AM-4PM at the Oak Park Mall in Overland Park. For more information about model castings and access to pre-register for audition, CLICK HERE. 

LIKE KCFW ON FACEBOOK TO STAY UP TO DATE ON MODEL CASTINGS, UPCOMING EVENTS AND MORE!!

Friday Outfit Fix | Affordable Staples

Confession time: I love an occasional browse through American Eagle. I always feel kind of weird going in there because I’ve literally shopped AE since I was 12, but I can’t deny it—it’s a great place to stock up on essentials. 

There are two things that (in my opinion) aren’t worth splurging on. First rule, try to avoid overspending on very trendy pieces. These two-tone denim jeans are definitely a trendy item. With items like this, that you aren’t sure will sustain several seasons of style, it’s best to not throw down tons of cash. 

However, you don’t want to buy something so cheap that it doesn’t fit well and/or doesn’t feel good. One of the things I hate about some items from fast fashion stores like Forever 21 is that sometimes the fabric quality is terrible. This is where American Eagle comes in clutch—the fabric is always SO nice and soft. As for these jeans, they are 100% cotton and have a very sturdy feel to them. Durable and comfortable for a great price. 

Second rule: don’t splurge on basics. I have read several articles that advise the opposite of this. This advice could work for some, but in my experience, it’s always smart and rewarding when you find a staple piece that is also affordable! This black bodysuit from American Eagle is one of my favorite pieces in my closet. In fact, I’ve been known to wear it two days in a row! It is super soft, fits perfectly and is incredibly versatile. Plus, it was under $20. Double win. 

Sorry these pics are kind of out of season, but I hope you find these two buying tips to be appropriate no matter what season! ;)

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JEANS: American Eagle (sold out) // VERY SIMILAR HERE

BODYSUIT: American Eagle (sold out) // VERY SIMILAR HERE

SANDALS: Dolce Vita for Target 

HAT:  The Bunker KC 

RINGS: Kendra Scott

PHOTOGRAPHY // EMILY LYNN PHOTOGRAPHY // LIKE EMILY ON FACEBOOK! 

#TravelTuesday | Maui, Westin Kaanapali Ocean Villas

As the weather gets colder here in the midwest, let's go somewhere warmer this Travel Tuesday. Maui, Hawaii! Johnny and I traveled to Maui after going to Coachella this April (crazy, I know). Some parts of the trip were not as expected! Disclaimer, I am NOT by any means complaining, but rather giving you my honest review of where I stayed and what I saw. Read on for my overall impressions of Maui and recommended things to do! 

Resort: 

We stayed at the Westin Kaanapali Ocean Villas. This was part of a deal through my American Express card, so we didn't get to browse resorts when making travel plans. The Westin Kaanapali is a time share resort, so the villas are set up like apartments (bedroom, living room, balcony, bathroom). They are very quiet and close to Kaanapali Beach, which is one of the most beautiful beaches in the world. There are several pools and restaurants on the property. This all sounds great, but overall, I wouldn't go back. Why? First of all, the food wasn't great. I have noticed this at several Starwood properties over the past year. Very disappointing because I love to eat! The second reason I wouldn't go back to this resort is based on the way I travel now--as a younger couple. This resort was geared more towards big family groups with children or older couples who liked a very quiet atmosphere. The rooms, while spacious, were almost too homelike; Johnny and I prefer less space and more luxe decor and amenities like balcony hot tub and in-room bar. 

Activities: 

Our favorite part of Hawaii was traveling the Road to Hana. This is a sometimes precarious but always scenic highway that hugs the coast of Maui. We rented a convertible, which made for a fun drive through the mountains and jungle. If renting a convertible, I DEFINITELY recommend bringing a hat if you don't want your face to be sunburnt (not a cute look, and bad for aging gracefully). There are several stops along the Road to Hana with gorgeous beaches, hikes and food stands. We climbed sea caves at the black sand beach, swam in ridiculously clear turquoise water at the red sand beach cove, and hiked through incredible bamboo thickets near Hana. Our hotel had a printed guide at the concierge that we took on our drive. The sites are marked with mile markers, so sometimes finding these spots is a little difficult, but that's part of the fun! Expect to plan a whole day for the Road to Hana, and start as early as possible so you don't end up driving this sometimes one lane road at dark! 

Coming in from Coachella, we were pretty tired, so a lot of our time was spent lounging by the pool or on the beach or rejuvenating in the spa. Kaanapali beach was a great place to be located. The water is crystal clear, and giant sea turtles live steps from the shore and are easily seen with snorkeling gear. 

The concierge recommended several "touristy" activities. We declined most of these as we don't really enjoy jumping on the bandwagon. However, we did do a sunset cruise which was a lot of fun. We also tried out the Old Lahaina Luau, but did not have a good experience as we were seated at a table with a bunch of loud kids, and then got rained out before the main show started. 

Food: 

Like I said, we had bad luck with food on our resort. For the most part, we went to a grocery store and bought food for our room. We did venture out to eat a couple times. Try The Gazebo Maui for breakfast! Mama's Fish House is always popular for a nice dinner, but make reservations! 

Overall Opinion... 

If you are a young, active couple like Johnny and I, Maui might not be the place to spend your entire Hawaii trip. The flight is LONG and you want to make the most of your time. A return trip to Hawaii for me would definitely include some island jumping to find more hikes and sights. However, if you are more of laid-back vacationer who just wants to take in the beach with a Mai Tai, or if you have a family with children, Maui should definitely be on your list! 

Friday Outfit Fix | Fall Layers + JORD Watches

Fall is my favorite season for many reasons: football season, my birthday month (October 20, #hints), and perhaps the fact that it is such a fleeting moment of temperate weather in the Midwest's typical extremes. However, fall style may be my favorite thing of all! The deep colors and layers...so much yes. 

When JORD wood watches reached out to me for a collaboration, the timing couldn't have been more perfect. I knew that JORD's natural wooden watches would fit perfect with my fall styles! I am wearing the "Frankie" women's wood watch with this outfit. I love the menswear inspired look, but the ultra-slim design keeps it from being too chunky. I've been on the lookout for cool watches lately so I was excited to find a unique women's watch for fall. 

I saved the best news for last--all my readers can enter to win a $100 JORD gift card! The contest ends on October 22, so hurry and enter now. There are no losers in this giveaway, EVERYONE who submits an entry will get a $25 coupon code. You definitely don't want to miss this opportunity to treat yourself (or start holiday shopping early...wood watches make great gifts)! Click HERE to enter now! 

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Photography by Sara Clance // LIKE Sara on Facebook

Jeans + Sweater are available at Lillian's of Kansas City in Briarcliff 

Pura Organics | Beauty Bar

Recently I was given the opportunity to try out some products by Pura Organics! I was so excited to try out these products because I am always down to try out new skin care. When I visited their website, I loved how Pura Organics’ products use natural ingredients. Reading further about the brand, I was intrigued by the company’s mission. Rather than trying to fix wrinkles, Pura Organics products are meant to help prevent wrinkles—these are products made for 20-somethings like me and most of my readers. I knew I had to try them out! 

The two products I have been using are the Nourishing Face and Body Scrub and the Eye Tightening Gel. The scrub is one of my new favorite products. I love exfoliating my skin and the scrub has the perfect texture for a great exfoliation but not too harsh. The consistency is so unique, kind of like sand. I recommend using it in the shower for a refreshing addition to your daily routine—you can use it not only on your face, but on your body to exfoliate. Tip: the formula is rich, so make sure to rinse thoroughly! 

The Eye Tightening Gel is super refreshing. I apply it in the morning and before bed. A good eye treatment is a must as the eye area is most prone to aging. Although I haven’t been using the eye gel long enough to speak for its long-term effects, I do feel like the skin under my eyes is more hydrated and refreshed. I like the gel formula because it is not greasy. If you haven’t made an eye cream part of your daily routine, now is the time. Especially if you have problems with bags under your eyes like I used to! 

Over all, Pura Organics is a great choice from the eco-conscious ingredients to the nourishing formulas. An added bonus—the packaging is high quality and elegant, so it will look perfect sitting on your bathroom vanity! Wrinkle prevention should be something all of us in our 20s focus on. Your skin is there for life and it's never too early to start taking care of it!

All About Dermaplaning | Beauty Bar

If you've ever asked me about skin care (and many of you have), you've probably heard me mention (rave) about derma planing. Usually this exclamation is followed by my awkwardly insisting for my querier to feel my face. Derma planing is a fancy way of saying "shaving the skin." Shaving your face as a woman probably sounds crazy, but I swear by it. Read on to find out more on common concerns and questions!

What kind of razor do you use? 

I use an eyebrow (safety) razor with a handle. It's easy to find a large pack of razors on Amazon! To actually shave, pull the skin taught and gently bring the razor over the skin in a downward motion. 

Won't the hair grow back thicker and darker? 

No! Trust me from experience. It's the same little baby hairs that grow back. I've been derma planing for over a year with no changes in hair growth or color! If that doesn't convince you, here's a bit of science. There are two types of hair on our heads, terminal (the "scalp hair") and vellus (the fine baby hairs on the face). Vellus hair will always grow back as vellus hair because of the smaller hair follicles on the face. Fact check me here. 

It sounds like a lot of work...why should I do it? 

Derma planing has SO many benefits long and short-term. By removing the peach fuzz and dead skin from your face, you will automatically get a more radiant glow to your complexion. Makeup will go on a million times smoother and look so flawless you won't know how you lived before derma planing! The long term effects are even better. By removing the top layer of skin, you allow anti-aging or moisturizing products to soak in even more deeply. I like to follow up derma planing with the Peter Thomas Roth Rose Stem Cell mask, and then apply rich moisturizer. Not only will your anti-aging products work more effectively, the deep exfoliation that derma planing provides is an anti-wrinkle treatment by itself. 

Now the only question should be...why haven't I done this before?? 

Bandit Coffee | Brand Crush

I'm really excited about today's post because it involves three things I really love--entrepreneurship, girl bosses, and coffee. My friend Adrianne is the definition of girl boss. While we are both from the same small town KS county, she didn't let that hold her back. Over a year ago, she forged her own trail moving to Arizona and just recently living the California dream with a sporadic move to LA. As if that isn't bad ass enough, she and her boyfriend Freddy have started their own coffee company, Bandit Coffee! Adrianne and I can both attest to the fact that running your own business requires a lot of caffeination, and lucky for me Bandit Coffee is the perfect fuel to keep me going. 

I love the Eight-Second Ride variety of Bandit Coffee. It is an instant coffee, which is perfect for me since I tend to be rather lazy pre-morning-coffee. I was really curious to try Bandit's take on instant coffee as most other quickie brews have left lacking at best or with heartburn at worst. However, Eight-Second Ride does not disappoint. The only thing this cup lacks is the bitter aftertaste which some coffees have. Bonus: it's is just as good black as it is with milk and sugar (my usual choice). 

How can instant coffee be this good? The secret to the formula lies in the sourcing of the coffee beans. Bandit Coffee uses coffee beans grown in Peru. These high altitude mountain farms produce beans that make Bandit Coffee one of the lowest acidic coffees on the market--this means easier drinking and digesting for us. Not only is Bandit Coffee better for you, but it's better for our world as it's organic and a Certified Fair Trade product. 

The best way to experience the Bandit difference is to try it for yourself. In the spirit of the small town roots from which we came, Adrianne and I are excited to offer you 25% off your Bandit Coffee order from now until Monday! Simply use the code "LUNAELISE" at checkout. If you spend over $30, shipping is also included. Your mornings are bound to get better waking up to Bandit Coffee.  

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Photography: Sara Clance Photography ; LIKE Sara on Facebook!! 

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Affordable Fitness Outfit | Quick At-Home Workout Routine | Lifestyle

Exercise--hate it or love it, it's an important part of looking and feeling your best. However, sometimes we aren't lacking motivation to work out, instead we lack the time in our busy schedules to hit the gym. I prefer to go on a long run, but life gets in the way of that sometimes. Below, I'm sharing my quick, at-home workout. All you need is 20 minutes. No equipment, no trip to the gym. My friend and fellow model, LaTasha joins me to help demonstrate these quick and effective exercises. For best results, do 20 reps of each exercise and repeat the set three times. 

1. Burpees

We all hate burpees. They really do suck, but they also really do get the blood flowing with high intensity cardio. From standing, drop into a squat with your hands on the floor. Then kick back into push-up position. Jump legs back forward to a squat, then spring straight up like I am in the picture above. That's one rep. Go through the motions as fast as you can to complete 20 reps.

2. Plank

After your last burpee, stay in push-up position and drop your arms so you're resting on your forearms (pictured). Keep your core tight, neck extended and hips level. Hold this position for one minute, or as long as you can. Only one of these here, then on to the next move! 

3. Squat Jumps

LaTasha and I weren't sure of the exact name of this exercise, so we will just call them squat jumps. Whatever their technical name, they are fun and get the booty working! To do this exercise, go into squat position (as low as you can). Then jump to one side (left or right) into a lunge position. Jump back to return to a squat. Repeat by jumping into a lunge on the other side and returning to squat. That's one rep. Do 20 reps. 

4. Push-Ups

This is a classic exercise--for good reason. By using your own body weight to train, you can tone your arms, pecs, back AND abs. Push-ups are a total body workout and I like to incorporate them whenever I'm exercising. Do 20 reps push-ups.

5. ANOTHER Plank

It's important to train those abs. Finish your set by holding a plank for one minute, or as long as you can.

THAT'S ONE SET...do two more sets and you have a complete workout! 

Don't forget to stretch after your workout! Thanks to LaTasha for joining me on this shoot. We had a lot of fun! Check her out on the Women of KU Swimsuit Calendar. 

My fun workout top and leggings are super affordable! I found them at Walmart, and had to get them. They are high quality with mesh inserts and the pattern is great. These styles are available in-store only, but you can browse all the affordable and cute sport styles here. Bravo, Walmart, bravo!

Photography: Emily Steele Photography 

Models: LaTasha Scales, Elise Hardenburger